[ARTHUR H. writes: I have a question about something that really bothers me and makes me feel very threatened and ashamed. What is it about white women who go after black men? I think that black women dating IR back in the day were fewer in number but smarter about it because the risks were higher. As it’s normalized, more BW are starting to venture out without doing the internal work needed to ensure success in life and love. Racial discrimination in dating affects Asian men and black women. This is an uncomfortable situation in online dating rooms when people actually do not want to date Black women or Asian men.